My husband and I both work full time in very demanding jobs we have 3 boys of primary age. I spent all of Sunday ironing, sorting clothes etc. We do split chores around the house (if I specifically ask him to do something) and my DH is a great husband (in many ways) and a fantastic father. We are both busy generally leave home just after 7 and don't get home from work until at least 6 when we need to run kids to clubs 4 evening of the week and Saturday and Sunday are taken over with football, cricket etc for the kids.
This morning my DH said to me when leaving for work next time you iron my trousers can you not hang them on the thin coat hangers as I now have a crease!!! My first AIBU is would it be unreasonable to ram said trousers up his rectum and refuse to ever iron his trousers again. When I said to him, maybe next time you iron them he replied 'this isn't about who does the ironing, I am just trying to make things easier for you next time!'
My second rant is that although he is willing to do jobs around the house (except actually cleaning anything I.e bathroom) why do I need to give him instructions. I know this is a man thing as lots of friends moan about the same thing. An example would be the other morning whilst he got himself ready for work and I got myself and 3 boys ready! I asked have you got their breakfast? Response, 'well no you haven't asked me to' Infuriates me!! The same can be said with homework, organising who needs swimming, beavers, PE kit etc!! Why do men never think to sort any of this stuff out! If I was at home fair enough but we are both in the same boat when it comes to work. AIBU to get slightly annoyed about this? I am beginning to think that men are not genetically programmed to organise things (Honestly I'm not really sexist) and generally require written instructions!!! Sorry for the long rant (and really we are very happily married been together for 16 years and love each other dearly, he will always do anything to help IF I ask!) just don't understand why I have to ask! Please someone prove my theory that men are just incapable of any foresight or organisation!!!
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jsmith17 · 15/05/2017 20:03
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