After a really bad couple of years health and personal life wise, I've decided to move back "home" to be nearer my sisters and their kids. I've been where I currently am for 12 years, and know quite a lot of people here from university, work, hobbies etc, but have found myself feeling lonely now that I'm single and mid-30s, so I thought it'd be time to do something about it. I'd spoken to a couple of close friends about how I was feeling, with mixed reactions, and over the last 6 months found a new job and a new house etc.
Anyway, I've been telling people about my plans both face to face and via messages etc and quite a few have said it'd be nice to see me before I move etc. They've asked if I am going to have a leaving do, and I thought seeing as it'd be a good way to see people I'd arrange to reserve an area of a nice pub in town, gave people a month's notice etc.
The party is next Friday and I'm dreading it. Half of the people invited haven't RSVPd so I don't know who is coming. A lot of my friends are random people I've picked up along the way so I feel I'll have to "host" doing introductions etc. And mostly, I'm really upset because the people I really wanted to be there can't come. I have probably 6 good friends I hope to keep in touch with, and lots of social acquaintances, and only one of the 6 is coming. One is a single parent and can't afford a babysitter, one is on holiday, one has family visiting, one is hosting a dinner party that night, and one hasn't RSVPd.
I'm really regretting trying to arrange an event (I've never really had a birthday party or anything so thought it might be nice to do one last hurrah) and it's making me feel even more lonely and sad about moving to be honest. WIBU to make excuses and cancel the whole thing? I could do with some extra opinions please!
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JustKeepDancing · 08/05/2017 19:51
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