I have a weird week at work this week - knew it was coming up, didn't know the schedule until this morning and told DH as much. He's off today, tomorrow and Wednesday and hence childcare is his problem. DD is in nursery tomorrow, at home today and Weds.
DH has arranged a big day/night out tomorrow- involving staying out at a friend's house. When he told me I reminded him I didn't know what my work timings/ commitments would be this week but obviously said in principle I'm fine with it. But discovered this morning that I won't be home in time for nursery pickup tomorrow and have to leave early Wednesday morning. Just told DH on the phone and he has immediately jumped to 'well I just won't go then. Never mind it's the first social thing I've done in months, I'll cancel it... etc etc etc.'
When I pointed out that he has many and varied options, including going for the day, coming home to pick up DD then going off again when I get back, or asking FIL or my Mum to do pickup and watch DD for an hour until I get home (both able and very willing). Then I'm happy to either pick him up early on Weds morning (6am so not ideal for any of us, but I don't mind), or again he could ask the willing and able grandparents to do an hour's childcare until he can get home on the train, or just bloody come home late tomorrow instead of staying out.
But it's all a big drama and I'm supposed to sort it. Despite the fact that when he's late home from work or things change last minute I regularly rearrange my own work and social life to accommodate it. AIBU just to leave him to it?! I have no issue with him going out - he's certainly right that he doesn't very often - but I do think he's been aware from the outset that this week could be a problem childcare-wise, still chose to make social plans on his days off, and now needs to sort it out!
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AIBU?
To think that DH is being melodramatic and annoying?
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ParticularlyPissedOff · 24/04/2017 12:38
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