I have a difficult relationship with my brother and pretty much avoid contact. However, I agreed to babysit my nephew (6, nearly 7) the last few days because of a family emergency on SIL's side and they needed urgent help.
Anyway, I have long though my nephew is dyspraxic (I'm a HCP, so this isn't from a google search, my friend who is an OT has also seen DN and agrees). This is impacting on him in many ways and from what I have seen these last few days he is very aware of the fact he is not managing like his peers. He is also very quick to give up as he says "I can't do it". I know that with some assistance from OT he could really be helped. At present it hasn't been identified whether he is right or left handed, so e writes (badly) with both and he can barely use a fork and knife- but with some help over the last few days he has made some progress.
I have mentioned it in the past but SIL got very angry as she views things like this as being told her son is "not normal" and "nobody tells me how to bring up my child". An attitude which led to a very late diagnosis of mental health and behavioural problems in her older DS, which have become very profound in part due to delay in diagnosis and lack of engagement with treatment plans and so on. DB sees it as some form of negative comparison with my DC, which it isn't. I'd want my DC to get the help needed if there was a similar problem.
I know from what DB has told our mum that the school have sort of hinted at a problem but not really pushed things. The school has lots of issues, including staff retention problems, so I don't know if this is because they aren't very concerned or if they just have bigger problems.
My WWYD is this- would you bring it up again, given the reaction I got last time? I don't want to make them dig their heels in even more if the school bring it up, but on the other hand if the school are not picking up on the problem I would like my nephew to get help, if that is deemed appropriate.
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jacks11 · 08/04/2017 18:53
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