We were in soft play with DS aged 5. Another boy who is almost adult size (stranger) appears to be chasing DS (no prob if they are playing nicely).
He then picks up DS very quickly, puts him on his lap and goes down slide. Then he chases DS, he tries to pick him up, there's a scuffle as DS is wriggling alot trying to get away. DS falls to ground then this boy picks DS up by his Tshirt so that DS is basically dangling horizontally to the floor being held by his tshirt and jeans by this boy. I rush into the play area by which point he is holding DS down and asking him his name, to which DS replied 'if i tell you will you let me go?'
At this point i shouted 'oi' at this boy to get him to release DS.
His response was that he was 'just playing with my DS'. I said very calmly but sternly 'i don't care. i don't like it. You can play with him but no lifting or pushing or anything like that.'
He agreed. He kept his distance after that.
His M was there but wasn't able to see the actual incident and I did not discuss it with her (it took me ages to work out who the M was anyway).
AIBU to think that this boy should have already known that this is not the way to behave with smaller kids and that i was right to intervene ? And that picking kids up by their clothes is not 'playing'. I always tell my kids to be careful around smaller children.
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having to tell off kid in soft play
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deadpool99 · 08/04/2017 12:28
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