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Sick of DH blowing everything out of proportion

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Zhan · 05/04/2017 22:34

Tonight a takeaway tried to deliver an order we didn't make. It's happened a number of times over the past couple of years. DH insists it's my kids doing it. I don't believe this as it happens whether they're home or not and they have no idea half the time that it's even happened. Why would they do it for example when they're out all night and have no idea whether it got delivered or not? Even when they're home they're in their room and don't even hear the door so again, have no idea when someone knocks.

DH waffled on and on tonight about how it was all DS2s fault and even if it isn't him it's "obviously" his mates and therefore DS is to blame anyway and should suffer for it by answering the door to these takeaway guys. It's nothing to do with him!!

Anyway I called the takeaway and asked if they'd left a name and they said they never had an order for our address, they had an order for a VERY similar address. So for example, say we live at 22 Roland Way, the delivery was for 22 Boland way which is also nearby.

Therefore I think it's pretty obvious that delivery driver just got the wrong address!!! But no DH caused an argument, said he's sick of "suffering" for the kids' pleasure and hes "depressed" about it blah blah ... it's not my kids doing it yet he still insists on causing a row with me and blowing it into a huge thing when it's blatantly a fucking delivery address mistake!!!

So fed up of him being such a fucking drama queen and looking for arguments.

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marriednotdead · 05/04/2017 22:40

Mistakes happen, it shouldn't be a big deal and you know that.

His reaction sounds draining. It seems to be a bad habit that you've become bored of.

So, what are you going to do?

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dingodon · 05/04/2017 22:41

Are you the lady who keeps posting about her dickhead husband whose abusive to her kids gets a few pages of advice, disappears then turns up again with another problem well same problem just a variation on the theme?

If not tell him to pull his head in unless he has proof.

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VeryButchyRestingFace · 05/04/2017 22:44

Are you the lady who keeps posting about her dickhead husband whose abusive to her kids gets a few pages of advice, disappears then turns up again with another problem well same problem just a variation on the theme?

Oh Lord, that was exactly my thought.

You sound like you've landed a prince in any case, OP.