Background will keep it brief for ease.
9-10 years ago I met a man with two girls age 4 and 7. Loved them. Had dd all get on well. They lived a distance away but we saw them holidays weekends etc.
Three years ago split with their and my dd's Dad. He was vile to me when we split abusive texts. Still wanted us back together. Slagged off my parents when he was drunk etc. Just vile.
Now it is sort of amicable for dd but I still get the odd abusive text when he is drunk. I have seen both step daughters when they visit not the whole time but a day here and there. we text etc.
Ex has asked me to look after ex sd 2 for three - four days at Easter as he is on a course for three days. She doesn't want to stay with her mum as she looks after her younger sister ( not exes) and mum has met a new guy who smokes weed in the house. She has had to swop her bedroom to the living room as the music was keeping her up and she is embarrassed to bring friends home. She also want to see my dd and her Dad.
So what do I do? It would mean staying at exes house as I live with my Parents while he is away. Which I really don't like to do. Dd will love it but I had plans work to do etc, girls night and I won't be able to see my boyfriend for four days and we are looking forward to the hols as it has been a hard term.
I am thinking of doing it though as I still love them both. Older sis is 17 and off with her boyfriend all of the time.
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Tinkerbec · 28/03/2017 19:59
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