I've just seen another thread on here about their child and their assembly experience so thought I'd share mine.
My son (7) and his class have had 10 free music lessons to learn a musical instrument. Unfortunately my son has missed the final 2 lessons because of illness and has had an operation which prevents him playing the instrument. Today the whole class performed a concert to parents which was brilliant. Very impressive really.
I had contacted the teacher a week ago explaining that my son wouldn't be able to take part and how upset he was about not being able to take part. Could she find a way for him to still be part of it. This was her reply
"Shame about the trumpet playing and the concert, but we will make sure we find him another important job to do in the concert so he is just as much a part of it."
I was so relieved and it pleased my son to know he wouldn't be left out.
Today he was a bit upset as expected but still looking forward to it. I reassured him that it was like being part of a team and he would still be taking part. I watched the concert with the other parents and my son sat on a chair next to his teacher throughout the concert. I kept thinking his part will come but it didn't. There were a few opportunities that he could of done something like hold the music sheets and give gifts to the music teacher but instead other children with instruments were chosen to do that. A parent next to me actually pointed out that my son could of done that. I felt so upset for my son and he came over to me afterwards teary so I did what I could to cheer him up. I can't explain the disappointment I felt for him. I feel like I'd been part of a lie. Not sure it's worth saying anything to the teacher now but I'm so angry that my son was treated this way. Should I really of expected the teacher to have done what she said she was going to do?
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Child left out of assembly
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lemony21 · 23/03/2017 19:41
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