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Anniversary gift.

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pissedlady · 21/03/2017 18:28

I've next to no money but wanted to get my DP an anniversary gift.

I bought something he's been wanting for a while now, I cleared the garden and and fitted it in the garden where he was talking about fitting it.

So he comes home, I tell him that it's there (gotta pass garden to get to house). And he whinges about it, complaining.

I just turned and walked away. I wasted £20 that I don't really have spare ATM (no it's not much I know but right now it is) to get him something HES wanted, exactly where he wanted, I spend an hour fitting it. And longer clearing the garden for HIM. For what.

AIBU to be annoyed?

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IamFriedSpam · 21/03/2017 18:29

YANBU. How thoughtless of him when you went to a lot of effort for him. I'd be massively hurt and pissed off.

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Derlei · 21/03/2017 18:36

What is it? Is it something that you can take apart again and return? Why should he keep it if he's not appreciative

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AnneLovesGilbert · 21/03/2017 18:45

YANBU, how disappointing and hurtful that he can't be grateful and nice about when you've clearly put in so much effort to be thoughtful.

Has he got you anything?