Might not be right place post...but
After advice on experience for your grieving husbands/partners.
Unfortunately a very close family friend passed away after being admitted to palliative care. She had been an extremely close friends with DH (more like brother/sisters) and also through our marriage always close. Before we were together himself, friend and other friend where inseparable.
I found out the tragic news early hours the other night while DH was sleeping she'd sadly passed away suddenly (early hours of our DC birthday)
DH made it clear he could not show any emotions and upset DC on his special day.
DH has since thrown himself into work and not dealing with things well at all...seems to be bottling everything up.
I know everyone deals with grief different ways and not trying push him into anything. But the last time I saw him like this was with his darling mum. Bottled everything for so long he exploded.
Just wondering if AIBU to have contacted said other friend ( im also friends with((I know I might bu to contact her as also grieving, was nice message asking how she was too)) to maybe the two of them too meet up and share their fond memories together over dinner or drinks? Hoping may help with DH grieving?
Or should I of not got involved?
Any advice over previous experience greatly appreciated.
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user1489706046 · 16/03/2017 23:39
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