Long story short, have a friendship group primarily through my husband (though I do have other friends!) and when two of these friends had their children we accommodated them by swapping nights out for lunches, family friendly get togethers and working around babysitting schedules.
I've now had my child and expecting my second and all I seem to get is either a) invites to "child-free" "let's get drunk" occasions or b) hassle because I'm not prepared to have my dc dumped at a grandparents overnight. we just this week got an invite to an "adults only" holiday where we'll rent a cottage and "gets loads of booze in". I'll be 7.5 months pregnant.
It's started to cause friction and has meant we've had to refuse to go to a couple of weddings etc. AIBU to think it would be nice to have a lunch out or something instead. I've arranged days out and these have gone ahead but have ended up changed to evenings out without the children. Totally realising I need better friends at this point!
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glitterglitters · 01/03/2017 15:26
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