I'm a natural blonde..always have been, and my daughters are too.
However, I have a 'friend' who is forever making the dumb blonde comment. Constantly making comments about so and so having a blonde moment. So and so being a ditsy dumb blonde, and regularly chastises her kids etc when she thinks they've said something stupid, with the comment..stop being so blonde. To be honest it's starting to get to me. My daughter sometimes plays with her kids, and has started asking what she means. Why does her mummy think blonde people are stupid? How do you answer such a question? Because her mummy is ignorant and rude? It is really starting to bug me. On a group play date yesterday, with a very diverse bunch of mums, all colours shapes and sizes, the blonde line was strung out a few times. Yet I was the only blonde. I have never been one to take easy offence with banter, having worked in the days of pre pc..I've really heard it all, but I suddenly felt really quite annoyed, and offended! I've got a first class degree and a professional qualification..and I almost felt like having to defend my intellectual reputation as not being dumb! AIBU? Do others get this?
If you have a black haired friend or a dark skinned friend, or a fat one or a skinny one..is it ever right to constantly make pertinent prejudiced remarks like that? Misconceived as humour??..which of course it is not!
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AIBU?
AIBU to think the dumb blonde joke is just not funny?
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mumto2two · 22/02/2017 10:47
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