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I'm not sure if this is a trend but two of my best friends are currently in terrible relationships but won't leave their partners and I don't understand how it can get to the point where a woman prefers to be unhappy and treated poorly than to set herself free.
I also don't know what more advice to give these friends other than to leave their partners and reassure them that being single is really ok!
Friend A - been with boyfriend 4 months and already he is abusive, incredibly possessive and controlling and has taken serious advantage of her financially. She freely admits all of this and she is suffocated. She keeps saying she's going to end it but just won't when push comes to shove.
Friend B - been with boyfriend 6 years. He makes no effort with her, haven't had sex in months, doesn't take care of himself or her (doesn't even shower etc). They have had numerous discussions and nothing changes. They are currently buying a house together!! She desperately wants to pull out of it (all money for deposit is hers) but again just won't do it.
Both in their mid twenties, very attractive and otherwise fun women.
AIBU to wonder what it is that makes staying in a dead relationship more appealing than being single and has this now become the norm? What advice would you give a friend in a similar situation?
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pinkmartini01 · 18/02/2017 17:14
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