Today I talked to a friend about the precarious (ok, shitty) situation of millions of women in the UK. Mainly, about crap maternity leaves (pay-wise), badly paid paternity leaves, extortionate childcare cost forcing so many women to become SAHM for years and face unemployment or lower paid positions when they want to return to work, making them vulnerable and often dependant on their partner (mostly financially), having no pension (or a very low one) because of the long gap in their cv, and finally ending completely fucked if their partner leaves them (extra points if he refuses to pay maintenance).
So we moaned about it. And moaned. And asked ourselves if it has to be that way.
How would we want to change it?
-fully paid parental leave for both parents (as men are generally better paid than women - another sore point - this might encourage them to take a few months of parental leave and spend some 1:1 time with their children thus encouraging bonding and making them apprwciate the hard work of a SAHP)
- affordable childcare (maybe depending on parents' income, like in France?)
- much better enforcement of child maintenance leading to a stigma on parents wriggling out of payments
Now I do realise that it would cost money, be difficult to introduce etc. But is there support for such an initiative? How doable would such an action be? Would you sign a petition if we started it? What kind of oroblems can you foresee?
I have never done anything like that (I mean never went beyond passionate discussions) and would welcome your thoughts on that. Could we really change things?