Dd is almost 6 months old, when i registered her my reationship with the father was a bit up in the air. I expected him to turn up but he didn't so i went ahead and registered with first name that we had agreed on, middle name that i picked, second middle that he picked because it is a family name and double barrel surname mine-his. Upshot he is not on the birth certificate as her father but has his surname as part of her name.
Now the realationship is totally over, he is supposed to see her every sunday but has only seen her for once in the last 5 weeks.
My mum has suggested removing both his chosen middle name and his surname. Looking into it i can remove the middle name by reregistering but can't do anything about the surname. I would need to do a deed poll for the surname but ex could challenge it even though he has no parental rights due to not being on the birth certificate.
I would like to be rid of both the names, the surname more so, but dont want to go to court and i dont think it is worth it to reregister to remove the middle name only. Mum disagrees and has booked an appointment to reregister next week, (to remove second middle name only) aibu to not go?
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Musereader · 16/02/2017 18:52
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