My friend died in a road traffic accident at the end of January. I used to work with him until I left the company at the end of last year.
I found out yesterday through my DP (who still works there) that the funeral is on the 24th at 10:15 but no further details as he works in a different team and they were just told that some members of the team I used to be in would be out that morning to attend the funeral.
I haven't been told about the funeral aside from that and I checked with another friend who was close to him (who had also left the company, though that was in spring last year) and he hasn't heard any details either.
I've been extremely fortunate thus far that I haven't had many people I am close to die and everyone I know that has died has been either a family member or close friend so I'm not sure how funerals are normally viewed for people outside of family.
I would really like to attend the funeral to say goodbye to my friend but, obviously, don't want to upset the family or go against their wishes in any way - would it be unreasonable of me to attend the funeral if I haven't been 'invited' as such?
Sorry if I'm sounding dense but I really don't know how such things work as I've never really had to deal with them.
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redlittlesquirrel · 10/02/2017 13:14
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