I'll start with the caveat that I absolutely hate being told off, like most people I guess. I'm very competent and aware but also anxious and have invisible mobility/pain issues - I can't always do things easily that people would expect me to so I pick my battles.
I've recently had strangers on five separate occasions point out something I've been doing 'wrong'. Two of them I knew about and had 'risk assessed' them as not a problem, one was because of my disability and the other two were nothing to do with me. I've had lots of other similar experiences. I got the impression the people pointing out these things enjoyed doing it. I'd never have pointed out the same things to other people, in fact I'd not have noticed or considered them a problem/assumed it was them. It's great when people are helpful - I've dropped something or my bag has opened itself, I've done this too, even getting the kids to pick up things and run after people as I can't - but this isn't the same.
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To think some people enjoy pointing out what other people have done wrong
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ShastaBeast · 08/02/2017 10:39
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