We are hoping to buy a house with substantial financial help (30-40% of the total cost) from parents in law, so have tried to involve them, asking advice, even taking them along to a few viewings. MiL has taken a shining to a 1930s detached house on a main road and is determined that we should make an offer on that over a Victorian terrace just a few streets away but sheltered from traffic. Perhaps the mistake was involving her in the looking in the first place, but are we bound to take her recommendation if we take the cash? I think we may have already fallen out by accident as she sees my attempts at reasoning with her as adversarial, and I really have no stomach for arguing in general, least of all with her. I now feel too disturbed to continue with househunting at all - perhaps we should just go it alone and settle for a flat?!
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AIBU?
AIBU to listen to but not take MiL's housebuying advice?
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cirrus29 · 08/02/2017 00:56
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