This only applies as it's only for newly diagnosed children, obviously an age mix in other autism groups could be great for support.
The majority of parents are of those aged 8-14ish, but a few have children aged 3 or just four. The older ones are dominating a bit and are generally in the relieved frame of mind, they can move forward. The younger ones are obviously more severe and also academic unknowns.
Aibu thinking it's a bit rough to sit through lots of "we never knew as they talked at 1" or "he's just amazing at maths" when you are wondering if you can access mainstream/ talk normally/ speak well?
Obviously we all have difficulties, but it's grim being the lower end of the group. All discussion about talking it though, using academics to build confidence... when you want to ask how to stop licking people/ choose a simple choice or say hi. I presume the older ones as a rule are more able if diagnosed late, those older but in a similar place were also diagnosed under 5?
It's a time you can feel a bit crushed, wondering what the future holds. Hearing others with the same label not relate to speech delay or global delays isn't much support to speak up and bare your soul to. We have such different needs. I don't know if this is a quirk of the group, it so happens that the older ones are in mainstream and talking well, or if this is a problem they could foresee each time. It doesn't seem much fun though as they haven't checked it for the younger ones. I don't want to talk right now if Asperger community identification or diagnosis schedules in detail, I want basic basic and possibly a cry to be blunt. There was a discussion, were you given the diagnosis in front of your child and if that was right for half a session... well yes as they wouldn't understand if we'd say them down and TRIED to tell them.
Obv feeling a little sore. Go easy
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To think this parent mix for an autism post diagnosis group is insensitive?
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UserOO7 · 01/02/2017 15:33
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