AIBU to be scared even though I'm doing a terrible thing

Yepiknowimterrible · 2017-01-26 04:29:04

I've name changed for this though I've been around a while. I know I'm doing a terrible thing but I'm really scared anyway. Basically I've been in a long distance relationship with my partner for about a year. We see each other as regularly as we can and we have a lot of sex in that time. I really want a baby and he's not ready at all. He thinks I'm on the pill, but I'm not. (I'm desperate to get pregnant and I think he'd embrace it if the time came - but yes, I'm fully aware that this is awful) So basically we've been having unprotected sex for over a year and I'm still not pregnant. Do I need to be worried about my fertility? And how do I broach this as he doesn't know we've been trying? (Please Jo judgement - I know I'm doing a terrible thing!)

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