I have a lovely friend who lives far away from me but she insists on long phone calls every other day. She always calls when I am busy and I feel terrible for ignoring her calls sometimes but I just don't have the time to sit and natter for half an hour at a time.
She always calls when I'm at work, I work five days a week and when I'm not working I'm always doing something like the school run, kids swim and gymnastics clubs, cooking, cleaning or shopping. When I actually get time to sit down I either want some peace to myself or spend time with dp as he is in from work at 7.30pm so not a lot of time together.
I also hate when dp is in ear shot of the conversation because she's always talking about guy trouble or some girly problem and I feel uncomfortable having a really good agony aunt style conversation while he is about.
I much prefer texting or Facebook messaging as I can reply when I have time or sit and relax whilst having a Facebook conversation. I have tried texting her a couple of times when I have missed her calls in hope she would get the hint that I prefer to text but she still rings.
I don't want to be rude and tell her to stop calling me all the time but I feel just as bad when I ignore the call because I'm busy.
I suppose Iabu but I just wondered if anyone feels the same way about phone calls?
I used to sit for ages on the phone to friends, even if I had saw them that day when I was younger, but working full time and having kids and everything to go with it, I just don't have the time anymore.
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lemondropcake · 25/01/2017 18:46
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