I know homework is controversial but it is set and we signed the home school agreement to ensure it is done, so here we are.
It is assigned Friday to hand in on Thursday. Ds puts it off and off. It's always I will do it tomorrow. Or he loses it. Or doesn't hand it in. Every time we do it, it is a battle. He screams and carries on, growling and yelling and flinging himself across the table or floor.
I have tried to let him manage his own time and it doesn't get done. Or gets done Friday morning in a rush. There appears to be no sanctions to not doing it so there is no motivation there from the schools side.
When it does get done finally, it is often wrong. I have taken the tack of just sending it in, but no follow up is done. If I write a note saying he can't do it it is 50/50 whether he gets a catch up lesson/goes over it with the TA. I have seen his books at school and he can do it so now I have no idea whether he is just arsing about as he doesn't want to do it or genuinely can't.
So, having previously thought that the school should know he can't do it,hence sending it in as it is, I am now tacking my husbands tack of making him redo it and explaining and teaching him until he gets it.
I also, due to the above, want it done on the same day he gets it so it is over and done, he has the week free and sets up good habits for high school next year. Plus he has clubs after school at the start of the week and I work early evenings so we run out of time.
I give them half anhour to have a snack and relax then get pencils, erasers and sit with them.
Tonight was a massive pain in the arse and I ended up saying don't do it then, but no screens until it is done. WW3.
After being sent upstairs he ended up Dominguez down and doing it no problems (as I had explained it earlier). But the maths is wrong. Really really wrong. I have said ok, take a break and we will revisit it, but he has kicked off again.
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MoleculeEmoji · 13/01/2017 17:19
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