It's DS' 4th birthday in February, but I'm testifying in court in the week beforehand and then we're both going on a sort of holiday straight after. (properly out myself there!)
My family expect me to hold a party for DS, but I really don't have the energy to cope with a party, or with a string of guests. So I won't be doing that. But really, I don't want to do anything at all.
Would it be totally unreasonable and out of order if I just set aside some money, take him to a toyshop (or sit on the laptop at home) and let him pick whatever he likes to then be wrapped up - bake a cake together, ice it together and just do a small thing just the two of us with no one else around because I don't have the energy to put up with anyone ?
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To not do anything for LO's birthday?
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LuluLovesFruitcakes · 03/01/2017 15:10
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