My 4 1/2 year old DS has been in trouble a fair bit recently, it starts with something small, him ignoring me or not doing as he's told, or him asking to do/watch etc something and me telling him to wait
The problem is as soon as I tell him off (I don't shout, I tell him he is a big boy now and he needs to learn to wait or he needs to listen to his mummy etc) it escalates it to the point of me being unable to do anything, he will get mardy, say he doesn't love me any more, hit or kick (lightly as if he is testing me all most, but still hitting is hitting!) stomp off and throw things etc
his behaviour is much worse with it being Xmas and being tired etc but I just don't know what to do, obviously I have to call him on his bad behaviour and teach him the right way to do thing, but it just creates an mountain out of a mole hill every time I do!
Has anyone any experience on this or advice? I have tried to really praise his good behaviour and say how nice it is when he is a good boy and how proud I am etc which works when he is good but obviously he still needs to be told when he's naughty or learn how to behave when he doesn't get his own way!
It's getting to the point where I'm worried about taking him places because I'm worried about things escalating!
80-90% of the time he's a good kid and I'm sure this is all normal behaviour as he's growing up and testing boundaries etc but I want to be able to deal with it in the right way!
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intotheabis · 29/12/2016 18:25
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