Hi all,
I could do with some perspective. My in laws have been leaning on my husband to book a week away in Lincolnshire in July. A cottage together in the middle of nowhere. I reminded my other half that previously we went on holiday with them to France and it was awful. They like to self cater so not a rest and my other half argued a lot with his dad. They also aren't the sort of people to go off and do their own thing at all, so we lived in each other's pockets. It really wasn't very relaxing. My other half said if we ever did it again then we should never stay in the same accommodation again.
We just got married in October and we are saving our money for our honeymoon in February which we haven't yet booked. We haven't booked because we wanted to get a last miniute deal for ourselves and our young children (2,1). I said I thought he should concentrate on booking this before committing to his parents but was ignored because he didn't see my problem.
They've now booked this week away and my other half owes them £250... but he says it's ok because he doesn't have to pay them back till May, grr.
I've said I'm not going. Would I be unreasonable to bugger off myself that week alone and spend £250?
I'm pissed off because the in laws know we haven't even booked our own family holiday yet and still... i just feel very disregarded.
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Icallbullshit3 · 21/11/2016 17:25
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