Maybe I'm just over reacting with the pregnancy hormones etc but I was chatting to one of the other school mums who I know fairly well but I wouldn't really call her a good friend.
We were talking about the struggles in life and I was chatting about the many things that have happened to my DP and I. One of the major things was we lost our son at 21 weeks a year and a half ago. It was hard, obviously, but we have become a brilliant team and our relationship is stronger than I could ever imagine. We did however have couples counselling but it was never because we were ''make or break'' we just wanted to know how to communicate better with each other about the things that had happened to us.
She came out with 'I'm surprised you stayed together after all that, you can't be that happy if you needed counselling'
Aibu to be angry and upset that she assumes we are not happy, or ''surprised'' we are still together? Surely counselling is not only used if you are on the brink of breaking up? The thought has never even crossed our minds
AIBU?
To be genuinely angry at this comment
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