Background, I'm 26, have an almost 2 year old son. His dad cheated when I was pregnant, 3 weeks after the birth and again in August this year then I eventually kicked him out. I would have loved more children but because of when the cheating happened I don't think I could ever trust someone whilst I was pregnant so feel it is no longer an option. Although the last few months haven't been great I have not broken and I am slowly coming out the other side.
Almost all of my friends are having second babies now. I am very happy for them and help out where I can etc but a couple of things are grating on me. They all seem to think meeting another man will solve all my problems. Comments such as "oh when you meet someone who treats you properly like my dh you will just be swept off your feet". Also, regarding the second babies "I now feel like my family is complete", "I can't imagine having an only child, it just doesn't seem fair to them" and "oh it's such a shame you don't have a family any more". The last one really upset me as I still see ds and I as a family in our own right or is this not the case?
I just want you to hand me a grip as I'm sure they don't mean it in a hurtful way at all but I can't help feeling hurt by it iyswim? I think I just need to learn to stop taking things personally!!
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OhhBetty · 20/11/2016 09:12
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