Friend (lets call him Barry) was very supportive when I was pregnant. His then girlfriend (now ex) was a close friend until she demanded to know if my child was in fact Barrys. Laughed it off over the years and have moved away as has Barry. We don't get to see each other often but when we do talk its normally like we haven't been apart.
Barry introduced me to my now partner and for some reason has started treating me like a leper. He went back to our home town to see people. My house would have been on his way. He did stop off but didn't tell me and chose to see another friend who lives nearby instead.
Made me a bit when I realised he was about 5 mins away and chose not to see me but discussed it with another mutual friend and partner and we all agreed it was odd but we wouldn't be putting extra effort in to see Barry as he hadn't with us and seemed to be acting odd. Ive tried talking to him regarding why but he has brushed over it like all is fine.
Barry messaged me inviting himself and his ex over so they can have somewhere to sleep before they set off on a holiday together.. On a school night.
Aibu to say no even though we have the room?
Dp and I are off work and he knows this but ds is still at school and we are heading off on a long journey to see Dps father straight after school on Friday (family emergency).
I wouldn't normally be so unwelcoming but I can't be arsed after the week we've had. I don't want to have to host people when I know they're only here for their own selfish purposes (easier to leave from my place on Friday morning than their own places). Im also still hurt about him seeing everyone but us especially when he was so close by... He always says he's too busy to see us but insists we travel all the way to see him... Is this friendship over?
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Eaglesandbeagles · 14/11/2016 23:13
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