Is there a future

[fmpc]

Just wondering Aibu
Would have said that my relationship with my dh has been quite distant over the last few years so wondering if I'm expecting too much
Have had a few tests recently and doctors are seriously worried about me and am going thru various tests for cancer
Anyway get the impression off dh that he thinks it all a minimal risk and that I'm worrying about nothing and when I've confronted him about this, he's ignored/dismissed it
So asked him this evening what tests I'm due to get this week (ct, ultrasound, biopsy ) and he couldn't answer (has been told), so Aibu to think he really doesn't care ?

[TheoriginalLEM]

i think he has his head firmly in the sand and is minimalising as a way to cope rather than being uncaring. My dp does not cope well if i am unwell and struggles to sympathise (there is some backstory die to my anxiety) but he does care. I also tend to go cold if there are health issues with a loved one. Its a defence mechanism.

I hope that you receive reassurance this week