Most people seem to be quite fisted and lack generosity? Judging by all the benefit bashers and snobbery in the world it appears that the default condition for the human race is miserliness rather than generosity.
I know that I vastly over generalise but it really does seem that most people are obsessed with money to the extent where they begrudge paying any taxes towards public services and are very quick to brand the poor as lazy scroungers.
I went to a very posh private school and everyone was obsessed with cash there too. Your social standing very much depended on the designer labels you were warning and the car that picked you up from school. Apparently the kids would throw coins at the local people from the state comp as a snub.
Today, the phrase 'hardworking families' is bandied about in a way that suggests that why should hard working families pay for the poor.
I am relatively poor as a skint single mum but I work full time (35 hours). My wage is low and I keep trying for higher earning jobs but with no luck.
I don't mind having tax deducted as I want good public services and a safety net for those in needs. So I guess I am a hardworking family but only because I am lucky enough to have an excellent support network, an expensive education, a bit of self confidence and a great childminder. Thousands don't have these advantages.
The word 'feckless ' is bandied about a lot too. I could have been described as feckless in the past for having a child outside of marriage and no steady career. In reality I was suffering from ptsd.
Don't get me wrong, I am all for people working if they can but the government are really tightening the thumb screws on the poor as I am finding out and it seems that many are celebrating this.
I guess in uncertain times people want to grasp onto their cash more than ever.
I'm sorry to all you lovely generous sharing people out there and fwiw I do believe we should encourage our children to share...I just wanted an attention grabbing title!
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malificent7 · 07/11/2016 18:44
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