Would you rather your children had a relationship with their grandparents because you lay guilt on your parents/inlaws to keep in touch (particularly around birthdays, important milestones etc), or would you prefer to leave grandparents to make the effort out of choice (knowing that will ultimately mean that they are not seen, as the individuals concerned are aloof and only make an effort if they are asked to & feel obliged etc)
I have a tendency to waffle so am trying to avoid a long ranting post. I just wondered if you had a disappointing relationship that impacted upon a DC, would you/did you leave things be & expect very little to prevent getting hurt? Is it unreasonable to lay guilt on grandparents so that DC can have a relationship with them?
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pygmywarrior · 01/11/2016 12:17
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