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I have a 32 year old brother who lives at home with my mum and dad.
He's been living there for 2 years now. He has quite a specific job skill that unfortunately has dried up over the last 5 years meaning that he has gone from freelance work to nothing. He has no form of income. My mum and dad pay for his food and the roof over his head. He pays nothing no rent at all and does not contribute. He does not help at all around the house, mum does all his laundry and cleaning etc. He pretty much sits there on his lap top either on Facebook, or watching tv. My mum and dad have talked to him about getting any job that will pay the bills but he refuses saying he only wants to work in a specific field. He is in debt to the bank and a few loan companies and the tax office.
His relationship with my mum is now pretty toxic and they no longer even talk let alone get on. The situation is at the point where my mum believes it's affecting her health.
I love my brother but I don't know how to help the situation. I don't know what I would do if I were my mum? She is terrified that debt collectors are going to come to her house at any time. I have found my brother in my mums purse on one occasion too. My mum refuses to through him out as she won't see a child on the street. How Can I help? It makes me so sad seeing the whole torrid situation take its toll on my mum and dad.
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Seymourcrelborne · 31/10/2016 13:31
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