Sorry to use AIbU like this, but I am literally at the end of my tether.
Ex was violent, abusive. Very controlling.
Our son is 3. In June he got a new gf, who had four children in care. He introduced her within 10 days.
Very quickly she was contacting me telling me he was being abusive to her, she was scared of him, etc.
I told him no more overnights, asked him to do a parenting course, perpetrators course, then we could relook at contact.
They then broke up after 6 weeks. I continued with no overnights because he had made no changes, is abusive to others in front of DS, abusice to me in front of DS, DS is starting to pick up on it.
This morning I received court papers setting out that he wants 50/50% shared care.
DS went for contact today 10-4. At 10.30 I got a text saying 4 was too early. He would return him at 6. I told him the arrangement was 4 and I would see him then. He said I was a fucking moron and a cunt and I don't get to dictate terms.
It's now 5.10. I'm guessing he won't turn up until 6. There's no court order yet, I know I have no powers to enforce but he just constantly pushes the boundaries.
I don't want to be accused of drip feeding but please believe that the above are just the edited highlights and there is a huge list of this shit.
What do I do? Anything?
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Mooey89 · 30/10/2016 17:09
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