I have a had a medical problem with my leg. The doctor has told me to try to keep the leg moving (ie tap my foot if I'm sat at a desk, get up and walk frequently etc).
I try to do this, but obviously it's easy to forget (get engrossed in a task and my leg stops moving). Hence I don't mind at all when friends or family say 'oi butterflies, move your foot!' if they notice I've stopped to remind me.
Today I was feeling unwell and flopped on the sofa. My husband walked through and said in a nasty sarcastic tone 'so do you EVER jiggle your leg like your supposed to?'
I ignored this. But he repeatedly made comments till I told him I thought he was being unnecessarily nasty and I didn't want to talk to him right now.
He then said he could be as nasty as he liked as it was for my health. So I told him if the new rule in our marriage was that we could be nasty to each other then he could fuck right off, arsehole. (Not very mature of me, admittedly).
He is insisting that I only got angry because I was feeling guilty for not moving my foot, but I feel his aggressive tone and claiming I didn't ever do it (when we both know I do!) was what pissed me off.
I feel there were tons of ways he could have reminded me without being horrible if he actually cared about my foot. AIBU?
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To think this wasn't being kind and supportive
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butterfliesandzebras · 17/10/2016 12:02
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