I know I'm being ungrateful here but just need to vent.
I'm self employed so doing my tax is a huge pain in the ass every year. My FIL worked for the revenue his whole life so very very kindly does it with me so I don't have to pay an accountant (it's very complicated and even he struggles with parts of the form at times).
Tax is not due til mid November but FIL and DH have been harassing me since June to sort it out. I ignored them at first as there was no rush & I was in early pregnancy and sick and wrecked. We have no childcare so I work around the kids, during toddler's nap, evenings/weekends and DH uses his holidays when I physically have to go out to work which can be anything from 1-6 days a month. And yes I like to have some downtime too.
I've been busy enough of late so the times I get to sit down to my laptop I've been working, not organising my tax stuff. I'm so fucking sick of them, especially DH telling me to get my act together and get it done. When?!!!! There are barely enough hours in the day as it is. I have another 6 weeks to file the return FFS!
Today FIL informed me he'd be over on Thursday to do it and was annoyed with me when I told him I'm speaking at a conference to promote my business and won't be here! Not to mention I have to prep for it so any time this week i have to spare will go on that, not gathering figures etc!!! We see him every single weekend so we will get it done.
I swear I'd get an accountant in a heartbeat if I didn't think it's cause ructions! Aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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I just need a rant re DH & FIL
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needtorantnow · 02/10/2016 20:25
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