I've been having recurring problems with an impacted wisdom tooth, and after numerous infections the dentist suggested I have it out. I said okay, and he said that he would refer me to the hospital. This was 6/7 weeks ago.
When I went back last week because it was infected again, he was very irritated with me for 'ignoring the referral and then taking up an appointment with the same issue'.
I didn't receive a letter! He showed me on his screen that the referring hospital had written to him saying that as I'd not been in touch to make an appointment, they would discharge me back to his care but that he should re-refer if needed.
I apologised and said that I really didn't receive a letter, I had been looking out for it and want to get this problematic tooth dealt with - so I definitely wouldn't just ignore it! I asked if he could kindly re-refer.
He then refused to do so unless I rang the hospital clinic and apologised, otherwise they would 'ignore the referral anyway'. I did point out that the letter said they would be happy for me to be re-referred but he insisted.
So I rang the hospital, and the receptionist checked on the system and said there was no reason that he couldn't refer again and that he didn't have to get their say so to go ahead at all.
I emailed my dentist saying that the hospital had said it was fine to re-refer, but now I'm feeling like he was just being unpleasant for the sake of it? Refusing to re-refer until I offer an apology for something I didn't do intentionally to somebody who didn't care one bit.
Is this weird?
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HelloWadeKinsella · 20/09/2016 11:03
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