I have 2 DDs at home with me during the week (DS at school).
DD1 is 4 and has 3 mornings at preschool and 2 days at home all day. DD2 is 5 months. On the days we are at home, I am constantly debating whether we do activities to keep DD1 busy or we focus on DD2 getting a good nap.
DD2 is generally catnapping in the morning and then (if she's in bed) managing a long afternoon sleep before we have to do the school run. I try to meet with friends with kids DD1's age so she has someone to play with or go to a group.
My dilemma is - if friends are only free in the pm or groups are on then, do we entertain DD1 or stay at home so DD2 can sleep? I feel mean to DD2 to drag her about but DD1 is struggling enough with the arrival of her sister without her curtailing her social life too!
I am not sure if DD2 would have such a long sleep in her pram if we were out - she's awful to put to bed if she has crap naps so I daren't test it!
AIBU to prioritise one of their needs over the other's? What did/would you do with your own children?
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To not know who to prioritise!
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Rollonbedtime7pm · 15/09/2016 20:31
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