I've NC as I know someone in RL that uses MN that would identify, but am a regular. I honestly want other opinion on this one as am not sure if I am over-thinking the situation or not.
I have a colleague, let's call him David. David and I work very closely together and have a good, friendly colleague relationship - we work well together, often have interesting conversations and a laugh etc, but it is always confined to work i.e we're not friends outside of work at all. (Due to DCs I don't do much socialising with workmates at all)
Until recently, David was in a relationship with another colleague who works in a different location (although same city), let's call her Mandy. I have met Mandy twice, both times while she was still with David although he wasn't there at the time, and both times a number of months ago. The first time she was like "oh, so you're randomMcRandomface" and we only chatted a little bit, and the second time we had a good chat and got on fairly well but I didn't hear from her again after that (and nor did I initiate contact).
But then, she and David broke up, and from what I can gather have gone NC. I don't know why or what happened, but have a sense it was his decision although don't know that as a fact - I haven't probed as we're not that close. Since they have broken up Mandy has added me on FB, sent me messages, and invited me to a number of things like dinners etc as she'd like to catch up. She's quite assertive about it and it's left me feeling a little off about the whole thing and not really wanting to meet her at all.
AIBU to be suspicious that she just wants to use me for info about her ex? Although I feel bad for thinking that as she did strike me as very nice and someone I could be friends with, plus as I only have a good colleague relationship with David it's not like I could actually tell her anything (nor would I). Or am I just being really mean and creating drama when none exists?
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AIBU?
To think she's using me?
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RandomMcRandomface · 14/09/2016 09:43
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