I'm depressed at the moment and that makes me less willing to go out and do stuff than normal (and I am a bit reclusive at the best of times).
The depression might be clouding my judgement, but I am really not looking forward to choir restarting this week - I don't like going out in the evening, I don't really enjoy rehearsing or the performance, and the fact that I can't sing as well as I used to depresses me too.
But if I quit, I will only have one hobby that involves me going outside the house and being with other people (knitting group), plus I am one-third of the second alto section, plus a committee member and I run the choir's social media profile and website, so I will be letting people down if I leave.
Dh thinks it is good for me to carry on with choir, but I am not sure. He might be right - it might be bad for me to become more reclusive/housebound, but should I carry on with something I am not enjoying? But if the depression is affecting my perception of whether I enjoy it or not, maybe leaving would be a bad move.
What would you do?
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SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 11/09/2016 16:19
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