DH has been working for the same company for several years. He has done very well and now earns very well and is one of the directors. This last year the company has been going through some changes and he has become more and more disheartened with the whole thing (bad communications between depts, broken promises, not enough money being spent in the right areas etc). He has been vaguely looking at other jobs but there is a lot about his job that he loves too so he hasn't been focused on other jobs. He has been headhunted twice in the last year by very big companies but since they involved relocating overseas we turned them down. Now he has been headhunted again. It is a bit more money but mainly it is a bigger and better company which is more secure and he will have good opportunities and can get some new and exciting challenges which he doesn't really have any more (at the top of his game in this job). We will lose a good sized bonus because of the time when he would leave but figured we could swallow that as a one off by cutting back a lot.
After several interviews and meetings and a good package offered (as I say only a bit more money so not really a main reason to move) he decided he wanted to go for it. He hasn't accepted yet but was about to and wanted to talk to his boss first. His current company do not want to lose him. They are offering to match the new offer plus another 10k and they have told him that the incentive he is signed up for is going to go through in the next 2 years and we will get a 5 to 6 figure sum paid out. Plus they want to talk about how they can improve things etc etc
We have to decide soon really and have no idea what to do - he could stay at the old company and none of these things work out or he could leave and possibly be happier (although who knows!) but if that incentive happens (which is about 80-90% likely) then we are walking away from something which would make our lives a lot easier.
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To not know what the right decision is - DH and job offer..
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Titsywoo · 07/09/2016 22:22
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