I think I need a bit of advice.
This year we've been on a few short breaks and day trips and that has been our holiday.
I tend to treat my 8 year old to something like an ice cream, some sweets or a small souvenir. I try not to spoil him, I don't think he has an excessive amount of stuff compared to most children I know. In fact he probably has less.
The thing is he always chooses the smallest, naffest and most expensive item. Then has a huge tantrum because I try to persuade him to choose something a bit more value for money.
For example in the old fashioned sweet shop on holiday I offered him pick n mix but he wanted a tiny box of jelly beans that were £3. I tried to persuade him to have pick n mix or a stick of rock but he was adamant he wanted the jelly beans and started getting really loud saying "no, no I want those", like he'd never seen sweets before. He then didn't like them and wished he'd had something else but he ate them anyway. They were the type of jelly beans you can buy elsewhere much cheaper.
In the gift shop today at the museum there were loads of interesting toys at a reasonable price that would last a long time for about £6 but ds wanted some play putty in a tiny tub for £3 and something similar for £3.
I tried to encourage him to have something that he could keep and something that you could only get at the museum. I just told him that you can get play putty anywhere for less money, and that it would be all dried out in a few days.
He started having a right strop and jumping up and down like a two year old so I ended up just walking out as I was embarrassed to be honest.
I'm obviously handling this all wrong but dh seems to agree with me.
I guess I've either completely spoilt him or I'm wrong to not let him choose anything.
I don't generally have any other problems with his behaviour only when it comes to him having stuff.
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