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About to do something spiful. Cathartic or just wrong?

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Wrenniecat1970 Sun 21-Aug-16 18:31:03

I Want to do something really really spite filled. I have cause. Actually, it might just be funny tainted with a hint of spiteful and it might actually help me heal and hurt.

Jizzomelette Sun 21-Aug-16 18:32:00

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

WrinklyBathToes Sun 21-Aug-16 18:32:20

In a year's time will you wish you'd stopped to breathe and stepped back? If not then enjoy grin

mrsfuzzy Sun 21-Aug-16 18:33:09

think before you blink, depends on what you want to do and why, no point ending up on the wrong side of the law because the other person gets the last laugh and you'll look/feel a complete twat. now i'm nosy ......

TealLove Sun 21-Aug-16 18:33:19

Hurting someone else does not make you heal.
Moving on from the situation and letting go makes you heal.

Arfarfanarf Sun 21-Aug-16 18:59:09

What have they done?

Many people advocate turning the other cheek.

Problem with that is it's often punched as well.

WuTangFlan Sun 21-Aug-16 19:03:29

Spite is generally not a good thing. It is distinctly different to vengeance or retribution.

AnyFucker Sun 21-Aug-16 19:04:55

What is it then ? < taps fingers >

SauvignonBlanche Sun 21-Aug-16 19:06:47

More info required.

Thornrose Sun 21-Aug-16 19:07:54


fastdaytears Sun 21-Aug-16 19:08:55

We need to know more to be able to advise...

dominogally Sun 21-Aug-16 19:09:23

Is it that you hate mn and created a Victorian safe thread? grin

TheHobbitMum Sun 21-Aug-16 19:10:21

Go on, spill the beans! Can't possibly advise until we know lol

legotits Sun 21-Aug-16 19:12:09

Hate opening gambits that leave too many ?'s YABU

Thornrose Sun 21-Aug-16 19:28:25

Bored already!

MrsUnderwood Sun 21-Aug-16 19:29:54

Spill the beans then.

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost Sun 21-Aug-16 19:31:54

They say "whoever they are", that. Forgiveness is better than revenge.

Karma will deal with them, sooner or later.

WankingZooMonkeyyyy Sun 21-Aug-16 19:32:29


TheGruffaloMother Sun 21-Aug-16 19:34:03

I've done a few spiteful things in my time that still make me grin years later. That probably makes me a horrendous bitch but I've never done as bad as the people did to me so I don't lose sleep over it. I'm quite restrained though. A person has to really deserve it. So I suppose it depends what you're planning to do and why.

Wrenniecat1970 Sun 21-Aug-16 19:45:31

Gruffalo - like your style.
Live in a lighthouse- bored waiting for karma. This git always comes up smelling of roses.
Domin- I love MN . In recent weeks I've posted a few times. Either for reassurance that IANBU or to give me time to breathe. I moved recently and I have not had much chance to make new friends to bounce my (never ending ) thoughts off.

Everyone else . I appreciate you taking time out to listen and reply to me. I may otherwise go bonkers . X

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