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About to do something spiful. Cathartic or just wrong?

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Wrenniecat1970 · 21/08/2016 18:31

I Want to do something really really spite filled. I have cause. Actually, it might just be funny tainted with a hint of spiteful and it might actually help me heal and hurt.

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Jizzomelette · 21/08/2016 18:32

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WrinklyBathToes · 21/08/2016 18:32

In a year's time will you wish you'd stopped to breathe and stepped back? If not then enjoy Grin

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mrsfuzzy · 21/08/2016 18:33

think before you blink, depends on what you want to do and why, no point ending up on the wrong side of the law because the other person gets the last laugh and you'll look/feel a complete twat. now i'm nosy ......

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TealLove · 21/08/2016 18:33

Hurting someone else does not make you heal.
Moving on from the situation and letting go makes you heal.

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Arfarfanarf · 21/08/2016 18:59

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WuTangFlan · 21/08/2016 19:03

Spite is generally not a good thing. It is distinctly different to vengeance or retribution.

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AnyFucker · 21/08/2016 19:04

What is it then ? < taps fingers >

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SauvignonBlanche · 21/08/2016 19:06

More info required.

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Thornrose · 21/08/2016 19:07

Spill!

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fastdaytears · 21/08/2016 19:08

We need to know more to be able to advise...

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dominogally · 21/08/2016 19:09

Is it that you hate mn and created a Victorian safe thread? Grin

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TheHobbitMum · 21/08/2016 19:10

Go on, spill the beans! Can't possibly advise until we know lol

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legotits · 21/08/2016 19:12

Hate opening gambits that leave too many ?'s YABU

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Thornrose · 21/08/2016 19:28

Bored already!

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MrsUnderwood · 21/08/2016 19:29

Spill the beans then.

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Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 21/08/2016 19:31

They say "whoever they are", that. Forgiveness is better than revenge.

Karma will deal with them, sooner or later.

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WankingZooMonkeyyyy · 21/08/2016 19:32

Spill?

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TheGruffaloMother · 21/08/2016 19:34

I've done a few spiteful things in my time that still make me grin years later. That probably makes me a horrendous bitch but I've never done as bad as the people did to me so I don't lose sleep over it. I'm quite restrained though. A person has to really deserve it. So I suppose it depends what you're planning to do and why.

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Wrenniecat1970 · 21/08/2016 19:45

Gruffalo - like your style.
Live in a lighthouse- bored waiting for karma. This git always comes up smelling of roses.
Domin- I love MN . In recent weeks I've posted a few times. Either for reassurance that IANBU or to give me time to breathe. I moved recently and I have not had much chance to make new friends to bounce my (never ending ) thoughts off.

Everyone else . I appreciate you taking time out to listen and reply to me. I may otherwise go bonkers . X

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