DD is 11. Her biological father left when she was 6 months old. We hadn't been together long, he was from another country and ended up going back there.
He then spent time in prison and went on to have two more DC within months with two different women. He is no longer with either.
DD has always seen ex h as her father. We were together from when she was 18 months old, he had parental responsibility, she calls him dad and we share custody.
Her biological has never shown an interest in DD. He's contacted sporadically, every few years of do asking to speak to her but nothing else.
A year ago in the early hours he sent loads of weird photos of him partying and said he wanted to be in contact again, clearly drunk. Then last night DP and I were woken up at 4am with a call from him (unanswered) and message saying he 'wants to see DD, OK?' ... If was 1am were he was...
What on earth is he doing? Aibu to not want this man anywhere near DD fir the time being? She has never shown any interest in him and doesn't want to speak to him.
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To not let this man have anything to do with DD?
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Kukoo · 27/07/2016 10:15
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