so not the first time this has happened, and starting to annoy me now. Ds (10) will have a friend/friends(F) round and they are all playing nicely together, then there's a knock on the door and its friends of F (FoF) but not friends of ds asking if F is/are here. Not always the same FoF, some just ask outright if F wants to go and play with them, ds not invited, some try making up feeble excuses on the doorstep about why F needs to go with them when I ask why they want to know.
It doesn't help that ds has aspergers so the whole friendship thing can be tricky anyway.
Obviously I can't/don't stop F going off with FoF if they want to but ds is perfectly aware of what's going on and getting upset by it. He has even asked me not to answer the door.
I know they are all only 10 but am still suprised they think this is ok. I wouldn't have dreamed of knocking on someone's door I wasn't friends with and trying to get my friends to leave them behind when I was 10.
Thankfully F who is here today preferred to stay and all are having a great time in the paddling pool in back garden.
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DontSweatTheSmallStuff · 22/07/2016 14:55
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