Hi.
My DD is living away at uni and she having problems which is making her feel bad and I dunno what to think about the whole thing.
She has been living with her 2 best friends in a house and to start with thing where going well. One of the girls dropped out, leaving just the 2 but they would eat together and sit in their conservatory and watch tv and do uni work together.
But after Christmas my DD friend got into a relationship and got diagnosis with depression and anxiety. My daughter was trying to be supportive and friendly by trying to get to know her friend’s other half but was always left with excuses even though this girl would go out with her other halfs friends.
When this girl was struggling she would help her friend out by getting her bread and doing some of her chores. I told my DD not to do too much but she always replied that she was trying to help her while she was getting better.
But now my DD is feeling hurt with the whole thing. She was left to do the cleaning the whole house before summer and take out her friend rubbish from her rooms. Left buying things for the house and utility bills. She also feels like she has been cast aside and taken for granted. She doesn’t feel like they are friends anymore as this girl doesn’t make any effort with her. I told DD that it could just be pressure from life and uni which she agreed but know I’m having doubts, this girl ignored messages from my daughter.
I feel bad for my DD she is rather shy girl who tried to help out her friend and I think she is being used intentionally or unintentionally.
Is my daughter just being a bit sensitive about the whole situation? Advice?
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Daughters uni trouble with friend
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Essexgirl94 · 17/07/2016 17:25
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