I have eight month old twins. I am very lucky, as they are happy babies and they bring me so much joy and laughter. My husband is wonderful and does loads, despite also working quite long hours in a demanding job.
However, I'm just having one of those days where I feel like everything is so difficult, and I'm kind of done. They don't sleep through yet, which is fine, but still tiring. We're doing baby led weaning, so my days are comprised almost entirely of preparing food or milk, giving it to them and cleaning up afterwards. Food and eating seem to take up an astonishing portion of the day. I feel like we're never on top of the housework, despite our best efforts, and it's just a constant treadmill. I also have a slight cold and I'm struggling with some physical difficulties as a result of the pregnancy, which is making life a little harder.
We don't really have any help. My dad and stepmom are several thousand miles away in my home country; my mom died when I was a teenager; my MIL isn't physically able to look after two very active babies. She is willing to sit in the house after we've put them to bed so we can go out for a meal, which we have done once. I did NCT and get on well with my group, so I get out a few times per week, which helps.
I know that what I'm feeling is no different than anyone else with small children and a busy life. I'm not special. I just feel like I spend a lot of time trying to make it appear that I'm coping really well, but the truth is that on some days I'm run into the ground.
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TitusAndromedon · 16/07/2016 20:05
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