Sorry not AIBU more WWYD
Last year in July, 4 months fresh of when our mother died me and my sister had an argument over text. Well mostly it was her abusing me.
I was wallpapering a wall and she kept phoning me, I texted her to say I was busy, I was listening to music on my phone so it was interrupting the music.
She then messaged me back saying FUCK YOU
I then blocked her because I know what she is like she will continue to abuse me or phone me.
She then used whatsapp to message me saying how she isnt going to be like our mother and run me down, this is why nobody speaks to me ect.
( Before my mother died I fell out with her, for 3 years, in that time she died. My last words to her were in an argument and she did try contact me which I ignored but she also hurt me throughout my life something which my sister never understood even though I wish I did just bury the hatched. )
I then said to her dont contact me if you are going to through low blows at me and again she brought up the fact nobody in the family talks to me (I actually cut off my family not the other way around)
So to the present day she has messaged me by obviously getting my number from our aunty a photo of her baby daughter smiling.
I ignored the message and she again sent me another photo saying are you going to ignore?
What should I do?
I am still hurt by her comments but in general as you probably gathered from my background I had a bad childhood/teenagehood.
My sister has never been there for me, she has always chosen her friends over me, even one of her friends bullied me along with other girls in school and jumped in a fight I had at school to hit me and my sister continued to be this girls friend.
another one of her friends (I have to be brief here) lied about something serious she told me about one of my relatives, when i told my mother she kicked me out. My sister knew I wasnt lying but instead saw me on the streets at 16 to back up her friend instead because she said she was scared.
I know this was teenage stuff, im 25 now but I just want to give you a background.
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Should I speak to my sister again after a year of no communication
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firelightsmoke · 29/06/2016 17:12
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