2 weeks ago my h returned from a 5 day lads holiday in Spain and yesterday wanted to spend the whole of Saturday on a stag do with the same people which would inevitably have led to today being a write off due to him being hungover. I asked him to either go a little bit later to the do or come home a bit earlier given that he is always moaning that working full time doesn't give him chance to spend quality time with our dd. I thought an agreement had been reached until I later discovered that he was now taking his bat and ball home and not going to any of the stag do citing me being unreasonable as the cause and stating that he couldn't afford a divorce so would have to sit today out.
Our weekend has been ruined now in any event as we are not talking and because I am sick of being referred to as the difficult wife at home who stops him from doing all the things he wants to do, which in actual fact is simply going drinking with his friends. We never go anywhere or do anything together as a couple any more and the things that are arranged to be done child free are more often that not gate crashed by his single brother.
I'm not quite sure when I turned into his mother, stopping him from dong anything fun but I'm seriously wondering why I am bothering to try to work so hard at a relationship that I get very little back from.
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To be annoyed that my husband would rather spend his weekends with his friends?
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Overbearingwife · 26/06/2016 12:29
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