DD8 was unhappy at her school and moved at Easter this year to a primary (school A) 0.7 miles from our house. She really likes it there and is much happier. DD3 had a different school (school B) as her first choice for a reception place because at the time of application, school A had a five person long waiting list for a year 3 space for older DD while school B only had one other person on their list. DD3 got into school B. I am appealing (on Friday) on the basis that DD3 now has a sibling at school A but there are 24 appeals for a reception place so the chances of success are slim. However we are close and have a sibling so hopefully we have a good case.
School B is 2.4 miles from our house in the opposite direction so the schools are just over 3 miles apart. Both start at 8.50 and school A finishes at 3.20 while school B finishes at 3.30. Neither have before or after school clubs. School A is a large town centre academy. School B is a tiny village school where DD3 would know 4 of the 9 children in her class from nursery. She has some additional needs so I think a smaller school and knowing people would help her immensely, particularly as she'll be one of the youngest in her year. I can't move DD8 again as it'd be unsettling for her and school B still don't have a space anyway.
I really think they are both better suited to different schools but don't know whether to disregard this to make things easier logistically. If the appeal was successful and both DDs went to the same school we could walk to and from school each day. Events would be on the same days and not clash.
If they went to different schools it would be rushing around driving at both drop offs and collections and events could clash, too. I'd struggle to make it from school A to school B in ten minutes because of parking and traffic at the end of the day. I could drop DD8 (9 in September) at 8.40 as I could trust her to wait and play in the playground. But I have no idea how the end of the day would work. I know other mums from school B but because of DD3s needs she would be distressed at me being late or waiting with anyone else.
If I haven't totally confused you, and you could provide any thoughts or advice it would be greatly appreciated. It's worth mentioning I also have DD1 so she'd go to the same primary as DD3. The route to school A is one road with a crossing then one small road near school so I'd probably be happy with DD walking it from next year so any struggles will only be for a year which doesn't seem long considering picking the right school for DD3 will affect her for 7 years.
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dondondon99 · 08/06/2016 22:56
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