We are currently living in Europe, but both DH and I are stuck professionally. I have a job opportunity that I am excited about in Dundee, but that would mean DH would take two years off to stay at home with kids. He can do further study, plus finish a book he has been contracted to write, but will have no other immediate job prospects.
Although we have both been incredibly excited, and somewhat relieved that we are not forever stuck here (a place with lovely weather, but awful in many other ways) - we are suddenly really scared of the possibility that we will be so far away from family and the few friends we have made.
I feel like a terrible person to be taking my kids away from a very beloved granny, a lovely aunt and uncle and some friends our kids have. Also, the most lovely childminder...
Do we take the plunge and go for it? I keep telling myself that we could always come back, but also realise that's actually a very small possibility... Have been in tears all morning, hearing my boys play with their granny and feeling awful!
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...to be thinking of moving away from lovely family, with two little ones?
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joeschmoesmum · 01/06/2016 10:18
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